Showing posts with label DS Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label DS Love. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Teaching Your Child About Special Needs: Part II

A few of you may remember WAY BACK WHEN I posted about something very dear to my heart...

That "something" being my goal to do everything in my power to give Brynn a positive perspective, and a motivation, to reach out to people who have special needs...

As we were in the check-out line at Target yesterday, a mother wheeled the most adorable little guy up behind us in his snazzy yellow chair. He was probably about 4 years-old, and he was totally zonked out-- laying back in his chair, head tilted back so far that all you could really see was his nose pointing straight up toward the ceiling... Completely oblivious to his little sister, a toddler who was about Brynn's age, in the cart behind him. She was making almost as much noise as Brynn was over in our cart!

The sight of him immediately made me smile... And before I knew it, I was letting out an almost silent, "Awwwww..."

"He's had a very long day at daycare today," his mother said with a proud smile, as she started loading all of the contents of her cart onto the register.

{excuse me while I pick my heart up off the floor... so sweet!}

Of course, it didn't take long for Brynn to spy the little boy and his sister, and she started in with her usual unprejudiced "toddler" greetings-- full of exaggeration and loud sounds, in a language that only they can really understand. :)

As both of the girls said (or rather screamed) their Hi's and Byes to each other, I looked down to see that Brynn was waving at the little boy too... He was still zonked out, but she still waved to him like he was her long-lost best friend.

 I realize that she is still too young to understand very much about the little boy and his yellow wheelchair, but it made me proud and optimistic to realize that she is the perfect blank canvas... And to provide a little knowledge and understanding to her perspective will only be too easy...
It's something that will eventually give her so much fulfillment in reaching out to these people who give so much love.

So, today-- with hope in my heart-- I finally ordered the books that have been in my "Wish List" on Amazon.com for over 6 months...

My Friend Isabelle



Special People, Special Ways

 
and, Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected- A Memoir
{for Mommy}



These children will grow up to face challenges that other children could never even imagine... And yet, many of them still overcome these challenges in the same ways that any child would.

I am thrilled to be able to do my part, as a parent, to help raise a generation who shows compassion, understanding, and generosity to those who have special needs.

I can only thank our gracious LORD for giving me the opportunity to offer this perspective to our children... and for all that He has given to me and my family.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

"Bloom"

Some of you have probably already discovered a new meaning to this word this past week...
To me, it's the title of a book... A book that contains a story that inspires me every time I read it.
To start out, just visit Kelle Hampton's blog Enjoying The Small Things.

Read Nella's beautiful story.
Watch the trailer for the book.
Be inspired to buy your own copy!




Monday, March 19, 2012

I Heart 321

March 21st is World Down Syndrome Day!
This day has so much significance in my life for many reasons...
But mostly, it celebrates these wonderful people who will always hold a special place in my heart...
And will ALWAYS be an inspiration to me.


Take the time today to find out when {usually in October, which is DS Awareness month} your community holds its annual Buddy Walk event, and sign up for it to help promote acceptance and inclusion of people with Down syndrome!!


"My greatest fear is not having a child with special needs... My greatest fear is having a child who is cruel to those with special needs."

Friday, November 18, 2011

Teaching Your Child About Special Needs...

I've been hard at work lately... I'm working on a few Christmas decor projects, as well as trying to find presents for Santa Claus to put into B's toy box on Christmas. Also, I am celebrating one of Allen's family traditions for the first time this year for Brynn... St. Nicholas Day. This means trying to be a little more creative with gifts, since I don't have much time to waste-- St. Nick's is December 6th!

Luckily, B is in a phase where she LOVES books... Allen and I just love reading to her every night before we put her to bed. It doesn't take long for her to take control of turning the pages, though :)
So, I thought I would look for a few books that will help her through her early years, understanding and interacting with children who have special needs. She has a distant-cousin who has Down syndrome, and I want to help her understand the amount (and type) of support people with special needs and disabilities will need from her as she goes through life. 
Mostly, it is something that is very dear to my heart, and a life goal for me as a woman and mother. I hope and pray that my children feel comfortable and motivated to reach out to people who have special needs. I think for this to happen, it is important to teach them about disabilities and how to support and interact with any person who may have a disability.

I started out at Amazon.com to see what they had to offer... Here are some of the books that I came across.

My Friend Isabelle is a wonderful little book that teaches about difference and acceptance with simplicity and grace. Isabelle and Charlie are friends. They are the same age, but like most friends, they are different: Charlie is tall and knows "a lot of words," and Isabelle is short and sometimes her words are, "hard to understand." The sweet simplicity of their relationship is a reminder to everyone that "differences are what make the world so great." Young readers will love the bold illustrations and simple text, and parents will appreciate the message and the sensitivity with which it is delivered. At the end of the story readers meet the real Isabelle, and author Eliza Woloson briefly notes how Down syndrome makes her daughter and other children special. --Daphne Durham

For all those children who ask their parents why someone looks or acts "different," author and journalist Maria Shriver's What's Wrong with Timmy? provides a base for discussion. Kate's mother models appropriate behavior, speaking to her daughter calmly and directly, and providing examples from her own life to help Kate understand about Timmy.

Special People, Special Ways presents a positive image of persons with disabilities. It shares the message that even though each of us may have something different about us, we share many commonalities. Coupled with the colorful illustrations, the book conveys the message that although painful at times, being different can also be glorious. --Gerald J. Hime, Past President, Council for Exceptional Children

This last one is another great book for your child, though it doesn't have much to do with special needs... Right now, it's one of those that pulls at my heartstrings and makes the tears fall. :(


This treasure of a book, for people of all faiths, is a starting point for parents who must talk about the difficult topic of death with their children.
What should parents say when a loved one dies? Heaven is a difficult subject that always comes up at tough times, and Maria Shriver has written a very special book precisely for these stressful moments. What's Heaven? is the story of Kate, a little girl whose great-grandma has just died. She seeks answers, and her mother helps her learn about Heaven. The many questions in this book are real, coming from Shriver's own children, nieces, and nephews when her grandmother Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy passed away. With 900,000 copies of the book now in print, the loving, confident, and ultimately uplifting answers Shriver provides are helping readers' families come together, feel closer to one another, and experience peace during the times when they need it most.


Hopefully this will help some of you with your Christmas lists as well! :)

Especially around this time of year, I think it's important to thank the LORD for all that he has given me... I am thankful for the perspective that He gives to me, and I am thankful for the life that he has blessed me with!


I will praise the name of God with song, 
And I shall magnify Him with thanksgiving.
Psalm 69:30


friday favorite things | finding joy

Monday, March 21, 2011

World Down Syndrome Day 2011

Today is World Down Syndrome Day!

I have worked with many babies and children with Down Syndrome, 
and I will tell you that they have all been an inspiration to me in some form 
throughout not only my career, but my life.


Allen and I have always said that if we were to ever have to opportunity to adopt,
we would love to adopt a child with Down Syndrome.

If you want to be part of a good cause, take the time today to look up 
when the next Buddy Walk is in your current location!!